What I've come to realize is that when I cast these dis-empowering spells on myself, it impedes my growth and my ability to fully love myself. I do a disservice to myself and in the end, I'm actually hurting myself. And what do hurt people do? They hurt people.
While I may not be 100% self-approved (read: totally in love with myself), the beauty and thrill is all in getting closer to that goal. For me, loving myself completely and totally is a MUST, not a goal. If not, somewhere in the back of my mind, that "not good enough" soundtrack will remain on repeat f o r e v e r. And when that's playing on the inside, I'm not able to be fully authentic on the outside.
What I'm learning is that the the first step is literally shoving those dis-empowering stories and feelings about myself out of my space! Like Jo-Jo said, "Leave! Get Out!" When I do this, I create a space of emptiness that can be filled with miraculous empowering stuff, which leads to positive transformation. Doing this will turn a breakdown into a breakthrough.
Tell yourself: "There is no other me, and I was created intelligently by the Most High!"
No matter where you are on this scale, you can achieve 100%. Today, I stand for a new way of being, not just thinking. I am committed to serving and having a significant impact on you wonderful readers, as well as to the people around me. If this blog helps you, then guess what - it helps me too!
How has talking crap about yourself served you? What if rejection was nothing more than a wake up call?